It is never easy to accept that a relationship you are so invested in needs to come to an end. There are always going to be signs that you need to let the relationship go even if you don’t want to acknowledge them. You need to ask yourself if you are truly happy with how the relationship is going and the only person you will hurt by lying about it is yourself. So, is it time to let go of a bad relationship? Here are some of the things that you should do to find out your answer.
More In Love With Memories
If you find that you are more in love with memories rather than the present, it might be time to say goodbye. Staying with someone because you have memories with them is never going to work out in the end. You will grow apart when you realise that the memories of the person you loved are the only things that you love now. You need to recognise this as a sign to let go. If you don’t, you might end up in the position where you resent your partner for not being the person they were when you first met and this is never going to be good for anybody.
Everyone Can See It’s Going Wrong
If everyone around you can see that it’s not right, you should start listening. We can understand that some people just say things without them being necessary, but if all of your loved ones are of the same opinion, it might be time to reevaluate. If you want an outside opinion on what is going on, you could go and see a psychic. Or, if you are embarrassed to go to one, there are always options online. There are online psychic companies such as Trusted Psychic and they can tell you what the universe has to say about your relationship.
If this is not something that you believe in, then it won’t be the option for you. But, you should listen to the people around you. Often you might see your relationship through rose coloured spectacles, and everyone else can see it as it really is.
You Change Around Them
If you are changing around your partner, this is a bad sign. You should not have to become something else other than what you are just to be what they want you to be. If you or someone else notices that you change when you are with your partner, this is another sign that you should be letting go. It might be the case that your partner has been subtly trying to change you and this is never good. You might not want to let go, but it is better to lose the relationship than to lose yourself.
They Still Aren’t Listening
You might have told them a thousand times how you feel. There might be something specific that they do that you don’t like and they have promised to stop but never have. If they are still not listening to you and how you feel, then they don’t care as much as they say they do. You need to be able to put yourself first and say no more. You deserve to be heard no matter what they say.
We hope that you find this advice helpful and if any of the things listed above apply to you, you should consider that it is time to let go of that relationship.