BDSM community and dating during lockdown

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BDSM community and dating during lockdown

When most of us hear the letters “BDSM,” we think of Rihanna singing about whips and chains or Fifty Shades‘ Christian Grey saying “Laters, baby,” right? And while it’s no secret that the BDSM community is, er, not all that fond of the Fifty Shades franchise, there’s no denying that the series has put the kink in the spotlight. But what is BDSM, really?

BDSM stands for ‘bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism’, and the acronym has largely replaced the earlier term ‘sadomasochism’.

BDSM is the trendy sex movement and many couples are beginning to experiment with various forms. Sexual experimentation is not only normal, but also healthy. Two people who have established an arrangement in which they feel safe and comfortable may happily choose to explore.

Types of BDSM

Some types of BDSM practices include:

  • Dominance/submission
  • Bondage
  • Roleplay
  • Wax play
  • Impact play/spanking
  • Sadism/masochism/pain play
  • Humiliation play
  • Sensation play/edgeplay

After doing some online research and reading experts information in BDSM groups, I have found out that:

  • Felt more secure in their relationships
  • Had an increased sense of well-being
  • Were more conscientious toward others
  • Were more extroverted
  • Were more open to trying new experiences
  • Had decreased anxiety
  • Were less sensitive to others’ perceptions

Ifyou are even a little into the BDSM, I am sure you have seen the ”Fifty Shades of Grey”. Christian Grey knows exactly his hard limits in sadomasochism and he may also know a thing or two about his legal limits. The Dominant character Grey in the fantasy fiction Fifty Shades of Grey is bent on alluring his coprotagonist, Anastasia (Ana) Steele, to become his Submissive in a BDSM – Bondage & Discipline Domination & Submission Sadism & Masochism – relationship. But there are lots of talks that ”Fifty Shades of Grey” is too far from the real BDSM and that it has delivered a completely different message to the viewers.

Maybe the thought of being tied up excites you, or you enjoy spanking or being spanked. Or maybe you’re more interested in leather masks and nipple clamps and hot wax. All of that (and obviously a lot more) is within the realm of BDSM. Basically, you can still be into kink without actually ever going to a dungeon.

In any case, you have to make sure not be hurt during BDSM dating endeavours. If you are looking for a BDSM comminity during the lockdown, you can check out the femdom community which describes the Female Dominance (FemDom) refers to a BDSM scene or relationship in which a female-identifying person is a dominant partner or top partner. I have found out that in the femdom community the dominant female takes charge of the submissive partner in these scenes or relationships. Their dominance gives them power over the submissive. This power may be psychological when it involves humiliating or ordering the submissive around. It can also be physical when it involves restraints or pain-giving instruments like whips.If you are looking for the bdsm mistress near me  then you should check this out.

In any case, incorporating non-sexual activities into the plan can transform a relationship into a female-led relationship, which many people attracted to female dominance enjoy. Although from the outside it may look like the Domme has complete control in the relationship, the submissive in many ways has more control as they get to give or revoke consent.

 

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